A Gold Star Daughter’s Tribute to Her Father, Alfonso Apdal Amos

Written By: Jen Amos, Host of Holding Down the Fort Podcast

Happy Veteran’s Day! Today is a day to honor our military veterans who have served. To say, “Thank you for your service,” AND to share their stories. Who are you thanking today? And what is their story?

Let me start by sharing the stories of the two most important veterans in my life.

To my father, Alfonso Apdal Amos…

I come from a family of farmers. I was told that my father loved farming, but his father told him to join the US Military to seek more opportunities. So he enlisted and served in the US Navy as a MM1 in the 80s and 90s. Here’s a throwback photo of my family in the early 90s – my mom is on the left, my dad is to the right of her, and that’s my brother and myself next to him. And that stroller in front of us? That’s my baby sister.

The disappearance of my father in 1998 was completely unexpected. He was on the USS Kitty Hawk traveling from Yokosuka, Japan Naval Base to South Korea when he went missing. I was told that a search crew was sent out for three days to no success… And as you can imagine, this has deeply impacted my family ever since. 

Today, we honor my dad’s memory at his marker in Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery. Whenever I have a chance to visit San Diego, CA, I always make it a point to have a father/daughter date with him.

I share more about our family story in Ep. 027.

About the Podcast

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While on active duty, families learn resilience, resourcefulness, time management, organizational skills, flexibility, delayed gratification and, of course, how to establish a new normal after every PCS.

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November 2020, Jen Amos and Holding Down the Fort Podcast was awarded “Media Professional of the Year” at The Rosie Network Entrepreneur Awards! Check out her acceptance speech at https://fb.watch/1Es0LLlGu7/

063: Thanksgiving Special & Jen Amos' Interview with Christina Etchberger on It's A Military Life Holding Down the Fort Podcast

In this bonus episode, Jen Amos gives thanks for the Holding Down the Fort community, winning "Media Professional of the Year Award" presented by The Rosie Network Entrepreneur Awards, and the recent release of Scott's latest book Veteran Wealth Secrets. Also, thanks to Christina Etchberger from It's A Military Life, we get to listen to the most recent interview featuring Jen Amos. Watch the Facebook Live version at the It's A Military Life Facebook Page at https://fb.watch/1ZwPHF8Aru/ (https://fb.watch/1ZwPHF8Aru/) To learn more about the Veteran Pen Pal Project’s Holiday Initiative: Operation Holiday Salute, visit https://itsamilitarylife.com/2020/10/11/veteran-pen-pal-project-veterans-last-patrol-operation-holiday-salute/ (https://itsamilitarylife.com/2020/10/11/veteran-pen-pal-project-veterans-last-patrol-operation-holiday-salute/) For Jen's acceptance speech for The Rosie Network Entrepreneur Awards: https://www.facebook.com/thejenamos/posts/10104456710139197 (https://www.facebook.com/thejenamos/posts/10104456710139197) Watch Scott's new video series, Veteran Wealth Secrets, on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz7vRdwcU2VoXBcD3WeHvpg (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz7vRdwcU2VoXBcD3WeHvpg) Are you a veteran who found the secret to personal/professional success? We want to hear your story! Feel free to reach out to Jen's work email jen@usvetwealth.com to apply today. — ✅ We're now accepting guests! Apply today https://forms.gle/sDY5nPkEMu665FXn6 (https://forms.gle/sDY5nPkEMu665FXn6) ✅ Subscribe to our newsletter http://eepurl.com/gTTOdT (http://eepurl.com/gTTOdT) ✅ Visit our website https://www.holdingdownthefortpodcast.com/ (https://www.holdingdownthefortpodcast.com/) ✅ Sponsored by US VetWealth, learn about our upcoming book http://veteranwealthsecrets.com/ (http://veteranwealthsecrets.com/) ✅ Connect with our co-hosts Jen Amos jen@holdingdownthefortpodcast.com ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Enjoy our show? Kindly leave us a review on ✅ Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/30SJ7NW (https://apple.co/30SJ7NW) ✅ Podchaser https://bit.ly/3dnCacY (https://bit.ly/3dnCacY) ✅ Or a LinkedIn Recommendation for Jen https://bit.ly/3jNobzB (https://bit.ly/3jNobzB) Support this podcast
  1. 063: Thanksgiving Special & Jen Amos' Interview with Christina Etchberger on It's A Military Life
  2. 062: Taking care of the people who are next to you, so that they can take care of you with Jerome Amos Jr.
  3. 061: Helping women Veterans and military spouses navigate life transitions while living a whole and joyful life with Jennifer Ballou
  4. 060: Helping military couples strengthen their closest relationships with Doc Springer
  5. 059: Uniting communities to end domestic sex trafficking with Brittany Dunn

About the Host

Learn more about the host here!

Jen Amos is an award winning podcaster and online entrepreneur.

Jen first found podcasting in summer 2019 as a way to work through her mild depression and bouts of loneliness. She had recently moved from San Diego, CA (her home of 20+ years) to now Virginia Beach, VA with her husband and fur baby.

Jen is an advocate for promoting personal narratives. She is known for her active listening skills, candidness, and ability to uncover powerful stories and life lessons while interviewing her guests live. Her favorite topics to cover on her shows involve military families, entrepreneurs, women, and mental health.

Prior to podcasting and moving to the east coast, Jen received her Bachelor’s in Journalism emphasis Public Relations at San Diego State University and was fired from her fourth consecutive job in her young adult years. For a decade since, Jen has established a career in sales and in entrepreneurship with experience in the legal industry, online marketing, and now financial services.

Jen’s been featured on multiple media outlets including Psychology Diary, VirtForce, Ossa Collective, SUPERBANDS, Chopsticks Alley, FoundHer by Entrepinayship, Military Veteran Dad Podcast, SD Voyager, FedEx Office, The San Diego Union Tribune, NBC 7 San Diego, The Living East, and much more.

November 2020, she was awarded “Media Professional of the Year” at The Rosie Network Entrepreneur Awards for her work with Holding Down the Fort Podcast. Her show, The Filipino American Woman (TFAW) Project, has been recognized as “Amplifying Asian Women Voices” on Spotify during AAPI Heritage Month 2020. In 2018, her and her husband’s business, US VetWealth, was named 2018 Best Entrepreneur Start Up Company Awardee by the San Diego Business Journal & The Rosie Network.

August 2020, Jen Amos participated as a speaker for PodFest Global, which now holds the GUINNESS WORLD RECORDS™ title for Largest Attendance for a Virtual Podcasting Conference in One Week. In addition to the media platforms, events, groups, and organizations Jen has been fortunate to be a guest speaker at throughout the years, her favorite medium of speaking has been through podcasting.

During her spare time, Jen volunteers with Veterati, SCORE and 7 Cups.

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